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7
THE ENTHUSIAST
Overview of Type Seven
It is no great difficulty to see why the
life of diverse hedonism is unsatisfactory even on its own terms. Boredom, its
ultimate enemy, is unavoidable...A life devoted to the collection of enjoyable
or 'interesting' experiences is an empty life. It is not a life of spirit, but
one in which spirit disappears in the multitude of diversions....When we think
of it, we all know that those who are in a position to sample life's sweet
diversions are no better off in any fundamental way than those who are not. We
know that those who have thrown themselves into lives of self-indulgence are
often racked with emptiness, loneliness, self-hatred, nostalgia, and yet are
unwilling to change. Knowing all this, however, we would be reluctant ourselves
to pass up the opportunity for such a life. Why is this so? Because we convince
ourselves that we would be judicious in our use of pleasure. We would practice
restraint....The life of superficial diversions has great attraction, as does
the pastry table for the child. In the latter case it is, we know, because the
child is not serious about his eating habits. So it is, also, with us....To
throw oneself into indulgence is to say, 'All I am is a potential for pleasure.
The more pleasure that exists, the greater I am.' No one can believe this in
earnest, of course, and this is why such a life must rest upon
self-deception. (John Douglas Mullen, Kierkegaard's
Philosophy, New York: New American Library, 1981, p. 100-1.)
Some
of those blessed with the sweetest pleasures of life are in fact not
"racked with emptiness, loneliness, [and] self-hatred." Some are
truly happy and know how blessed they are. Then there are those who seem to be
quite happy—at least, they think they are—but they are merely amused and
distracted, grabbing after the pleasures of life rather than experiencing
happiness on its deeper levels. Finally, there are those who, despite having
everything, are bitter and disappointed. For some reason, the possession of wealth
and all the good things of life has not been enough for them. Why the
differences among these three kinds of people?
All
the personality types are faced with the issue of how to "use" the
world to its best advantage, although the Seven is the type which most
exemplifies this universal problem. How to enjoy pleasure without living for
pleasure? How to possess the good things of life without being insensitive to
the needs of others? How to live in the world without getting lost in it? For better or worse, the Seven lives out
these questions.
In the Thinking TriadSevens
are one of the three personality types in the Thinking Triad. The nature of
their potential problem begins with one of their strongest assets—their agile
minds. Type Seven’s thinking is quick and mercurial, they are curious, easily
stimulated, and eager for new ideas and experiences. However, to the degree
that they are anxious about themselves or their lives, is the degree to which
their minds race out of control, leading them into a widening circle of
unfocused behaviors. There is a powerful link in Sevens between their thinking
and their doing. If they entertain an idea about an activity which is
interesting and enjoyable to them, as soon as possible, they want to do it.
Ultimately, their minds are speeding along about two steps ahead of them, and
they are moving fairly quickly! They tend to
spin out of control trying to realize all of their ideas, in a search
for satisfying experiences and happiness.
Sevens
are readily excited by the environment: they respond to stimuli strongly,
throwing themselves into the world of experience with enormous vitality. It is
worth noting that, unlike Fives, Sevens’ thoughts are primarily focused on this
world and on the things they want to do in it. Thinking about their
possibilities and future activities makes them feel good, and wards off
potentially painful emotions and anxiety. Sevens react to everything with such
immediacy—so much so that whatever they do rapidly leads to more exciting ideas
and consequently, more doing.
Experience
is their guide to life. Sevens are at home among the tastes, colors, sounds,
and textures of the material world. Their identities and self-esteem depend on
their obtaining a steady stream of stimulating ideas and impressions. Their
personality traits, their defense mechanisms, and their motivations all reflect
the fact that to Sevens everything desirable exists outside of themselves in
the world of things and experiences. Sevens therefore have very little interest
in what they cannot immediately sense. Generally speaking, they are neither
profoundly introspective nor especially person-oriented. Instead, they are
experience-oriented—extroverted, practical, and urbane. They feel that the
world exists for their enjoyment, and that it is up to them to get what they
want for themselves.
When
they are healthy, their experiences are a source of immense satisfaction to
them, and they learn to do many things well because the focus of their
attention is on producing something in the environment. However, the focus of
average Sevens shifts away from productivity to the possession and consumption
of more goods and experiences. They stay busy to keep their level of
stimulation high. However, hyperactivity makes happiness ultimately elude them
because they do not appreciate anything they do or have. This is why, if they
become unhealthy, Sevens are little more than dissipated escapists, acting
impulsively and increasingly out of control.
Sevens
correspond to the extroverted sensation type in the Jungian typology.
As sensation is chiefly conditioned by
the object, those objects that excite the strongest sensations will be decisive
for the individual's psychology. The result is a strong sensuous tie to the
object....Objects are valued in so far as they excite sensations, and, so far
as lies within the power of sensation, they are fully accepted into
consciousness whether they are compatible with rational judgments or not. The
sole criterion of their value is the intensity of the sensation produced by
their objective qualities....
No
other human type can equal the extroverted sensation type in realism. His sense
for objective facts is extraordinarily developed. His life is an accumulation
of actual experiences of concrete objects....What he experiences serves at most
as a guide to fresh sensations....Sensation for him is a concrete expression of
life—it is simply real life lived to the full. His whole aim is concrete
enjoyment, and his morality is oriented accordingly. (C. G. Jung, Psychological Types, 362-363.)
Jung's
description of the extroverted sensation type applies exceptionally well to
Sevens. No personality type is more practical or more widely accomplished than
they are. Their positive, even joyous, orientation to the world produces a
great deal of happiness for themselves and others. But, if their appetites get
the better of their ability to control them, average Sevens consume more than
they need and more than they can possibly appreciate. They begin to enjoy their
experiences less while becoming anxious about obtaining more of everything.
Problems with Anxiety and Insecurity Like
types Five and Six, the other two types of this Triad, Sevens have problems
with anxiety, and develop a pattern of thinking and behaving as a defense
against it. We have seen that Fives are fearful and anxious about their ability
to cope with the external environment and so retreat from it. Sevens are almost
the exact opposite situation: they are fearful and anxious about their ability
to cope with their inner
environment—their grief and pain. As a result, they flee outward into the
external environment and seek to interact with it sufficiently to avoid dealing
with their internal emotional pain.
Sevens
attempt to control their level of anxiety by keeping their attention occupied
with ideas and possibilities that excite them. They keep their mind full of
activities that they can look forward to, positive experiences that they know
they will enjoy. Every time anxiety rears its head, Sevens are ready with a new
adventure, a new book, a workshop they pan to attend, or an exciting new
relationship. As long as they can keep their attention occupied with positive
expectations, Sevens can hold their pain and anxiety at bay. They do not want to
deal with their anxiety or examine its causes in their lives because doing so
draws them inward, making them more anxious. while extroversion pulls them
outward, toward the environment, repressing anxiety, at least temporarily. They
discover that the distractions which their activities provide repress anxiety
whenever it threatens to erupt into consciousness, but that they need to keep
searching for exciting activities to keep themselves safe from their inner
distress. They therefore throw themselves into more and more experiences to
avoid having to face anxiety or any feeling of unhappiness.
The
problem is that the more Sevens fill up their minds anticipating the fun they
will have in the future, the less they are in touch with whatever experience
they are having in the present. Consequently, the experience they are currently
having cannot really affect them, cannot really satisfy them. This is like the
person who has always wanted to see the pyramids in Egypt, and after much
anticipation, finally embarks on a trip to see them. However, on arriving at
the pyramids, the person is anticipating an exciting dinner in Cairo that
night, or perhaps thinking about showing friends back home their pictures of
the trip, and so "misses" seeing the pyramids. The person’s attention is
elsewhere, no on the experience that they are having. Naturally, this decreases
the enjoyment of the experience, leaving the Seven hungry for more.
As
enjoyment decreases, average Sevens feel anxious and insecure, leading them to
overdo their activities all the more. But as they become hyperactive, average
to unhealthy Sevens not only do not enjoy what they do, they become even more
anxious and insecure, and are tempted to dissipate themselves even further.
They do not realize that it will become increasingly difficult for them to
break out of this vicious circle once they become addicted to staying in
motion.
Furthermore,
the more anxious Sevens are, and the more pain they are repressing, the more
their minds will be "revved up" and the less they will be able to be satisfied
by the experiences they are going to great trouble to have. It is as if their
minds are walking two or three steps ahead of them. The more anxious they get,
the more they distract themselves by anticipating the future, and the less
their experiences serve to quell their anxiety. Sevens keep fleeing outward
into the world of experience as they try to outrun the fear and hurt inside
them. But the more they flee, the bigger the thrills they will need, and the
harder they will be to sustain.
The
flaw with this is that the more average to unhealthy Sevens do, and the more
they are distracting themselves to avoid their pain, the less satisfaction
their experiences are able to provide. They do not see that their happiness is precarious
and easy to lose, because they neither interiorize their experiences, nor
control their appetites. Ultimately, if they invest little of themselves in
their experiences, Sevens cannot be satisfied by what they do. To their
mounting panic, they discover that nothing makes them happy. They then become
enraged and terrified because it seems that life has cruelly deprived them of
happiness.
Parental OrientationAs
young children, Sevens were disconnected to the nurturing figure, the person in
their early development who mirrored them, cared for them, and provided
affection and a sense of personal value. This person is often the mother or a
mother-substitute, but not always. In some family systems, the father, or an
older sibling provided nurturance to the infant. In any event, Sevens perceived
that their was some problem with their nurturing figure. They did not feel
bonded with this person, or feel that the person was a safe and consistent
source of nurturance. For a wide variety of possible reasons, Sevens felt
frustrated by their nurturing figures: they did not feel that they could
depend on getting what they needed from them. As a result, Sevens try to
compensate for the nurturance they feel they did not receive by getting things
for themselves.
It is
probable that, in most cases, their nurturing figures did not intend to
frustrate them when they were children. Some other childhood deprivation, such
as poverty, war, being orphaned, or a long illness, may have shaken their
expectation that the good things of life would be given to them. There may have
been an absence of the nurturing figure at a critical stage, or some accident
that shook the child’s confidence. It may also be that Seven’s naturally need a
great deal of contact and stimulation which may be more than the nurturing
figure can provide. Thus, for whatever reasons, the fear of deprivation becomes
the fundamental motivation for this personality type. The other side of the
psychic coin is that Sevens begin to demand that all their desires be
satisfied. Possessing whatever they think will make them happy becomes symbolic
of having the nurturing and sense of well-being they feel is always just beyond
their grasp.
Problems with Appetites and Aggressions Average
Sevens want instant gratification. They place few limits on themselves and do
not want to deny themselves anything. If they see something they want, they
must have it. If something occurs to them to do, they must do it right away. If
something gives them pleasure, they want more of it immediately. Their
appetites are strong, and the lengths to which they go to gratify their desires
allow us to characterize Sevens as aggressive personalities. However, since
they are also insecure, the picture is mixed: they enlist their aggressive impulses
to stave off their anxieties and insecurities.
Sevens
also typically get into conflicts with people by putting others in the position
of having to place limits on them instead of doing it themselves. Whatever
self-control average Sevens have must come from outside themselves, either from
others who are forced to say no to them, or from reality itself, which may well
frustrate their desires. If they are frustrated, Sevens become enraged because
it unconsciously raises the memories of their real or imagined childhood
deprivations. Those who frustrate average to unhealthy Sevens are not likely to
forget the anger they arouse, or the depth of the need Sevens unwittingly
display.
When
Sevens are healthy, however, they concern themselves with the satisfaction of
their genuine needs rather than the gratification of every desire. They are
productive, adding to the world instead of merely consuming it. They become
accomplished, making the environment yield more of its riches for themselves
and for others. They are also unusually happy people because they are able to
truly assimilate their experiences, getting in touch with their feelings and
with themselves.
But as
they deteriorate toward unhealth, Sevens allow their appetites to run amok, and
they become greedy, selfish, and insensitive to the needs of others. They care
only about their own gratification. The terrible irony is that since unhealthy
Sevens interiorize nothing, nothing can satisfy them. They are like drug
addicts who need a larger and larger "fix" to maintain their
artificial highs. In the end, unhealthy Sevens become so indiscriminate in
their search for happiness that they fly totally out of control, both in their
actions and their ability to repress their ever-mounting anxiety. Panic overwhelms
them because they have nothing solid within to anchor themselves to. The type
which affirms life so completely when it is healthy becomes, when it is
unhealthy, the type which is most terrified by the very conditions of life
itself.
(from Personality Types, p. 260-267)
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